Real Housewives of New York City a/o April 8, 2010

I seem to be getting hung up on this show. But the truth is that I'm also watching Dancing with the Stars, Sober House, and for the first time in ages, American Idol. I will undoubtedly comment on these other shows. But for now, Real Housewives warrants some comment.

I'm honestly surprised that Jill and Bethenny haven't made up yet. But, according to reports, Jill did not attend Bethenny's wedding, which probably occurred after the filming of this season's show. I think that this relationship mirrors the friendships of many audience members; the breakup demonstrates how both insecurity and pride wear apart relationships.

I'm surprised that Jill cannot see what a judgmental person she has become. She has lain in wait for her friends to goof up. Not just Bethenny. She got angry at Ramona for getting the two of them together, when Jill did the exact same thing last season with Kelli and Bethenny. Jill gets offended when any of the cast members spend time with Bethenny.

I believe that Ramona was correct when she said that Jill befriends underdogs. I do believe that it was easier for Jill to help Bethenny before her big successes. Have you ever had a friend who held your hand when you cried but could not handle your successes?

I loved the scene with LuAnn spending the night in Jill's guest room. The guest room looked so inviting. No matter how old we are, it feels good to offer a comfortable room to a friend, and it is nice to be pampered by a friend as well. Both women wore their pretty nightgowns for each other, and they laughed when Jill's dog farted.

I like Kelli more each episode (if I don't think about the fur). She is not petty. Neither is Alex. Alex is the most consistent and trustworthy.

Ramona is not tactful at all. Why would she tell Bethenny that she'll probably lose Jason? She could have gotten her point across a hundred different ways. For instance, "Jason is the only loyal person in your life right now. I hope the relationship works out for the both of you. I'd hang onto him; he seems very special."